Rule #3 Make friends with people who want the best for you.

What’s important – more friends or better friend?

In this vlog/podcast Kate Daigh and I discuss Jordan Peterson’s Rule #3 – Make friends with people who want the best for you.

Watch or listen and share your comments with us below. Download the worksheet for this rule and add it to your notebook/journal.

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  1. Robin Bennett on August 15, 2022 at 6:51 pm

    I had a crafting friend that I really enjoyed spending time with. When her marriage started falling apart, all she could talk about was her problems at home – very depressing to me!!!! I chose to walk away from that heavy friendship. It was always about her and her problems. No advice was wanted or asked for. I miss my friend but I couldn’t handle all her baggage. It was a choice that I had to make.

    • Tiffany_ Spaulding on August 22, 2022 at 1:32 pm

      Hi Robin – It’s always tough to walk away from people. There’s a lot of “stuff” attached to relationships. Making a conscious decision is always good. Thanks for taking the time to watch and post. I’m so happy your name popped up! T.

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